There were several clues this relationship wasn’t going to work out. I suppose the first was a dwindling sex life. Alas, when the deed is done, so is the relationship. I know. It sucks. But, the truth hurts and knowledge is power, so on and so forth. Sex is a big deal in a marriage. Wife and hubby play nicer when they are happier. Those little things like taking out the trash and putting the toilet seat down aren’t as big of a deal when you’re having great sex.
At some point in my marriage, our sex life died. I then proceeded to wrap it in a plastic bag, drag it in the backyard and bury it. Out of sight, out of mind; whomever thought of this should be shot. This statement is not true, and never will be. No matter how long it takes, that thought will pop up, or be dug up.
With my upcoming freedom, I find myself pondering: what is sex like with someone new? I was in this relationship, faithfully, for almost ten years. Obviously, I know how it’s done; I have two kids. But maybe I’m out of touch? What’s going on out there? Curiosity and some weird footage on the YouTube™ video, I have decided that there has to be someone that’s old school like me. When the time is right it’ll happen. There is some crazy stuff out there and I’m open-minded; but, seriously, two girls, one cup? I still vomit a little.
And of course there will be more to add to this category when it happens. Until then, you and I are both waiting. So, what's a newly single girl suppose to do now?
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Don't worry, take it from an unmarried woman... sex hasn't changed much in 10 years. Heck sex hasn't changed much in 100 years, hell even 1,000! But the game is sure different: More players on the field fowling out early! ;-)
ReplyDeleteYou'll be just fine, just take it slowly.... realllll slow. Despite what Anyone may say... take life at Your OWN pace.
Good Luck!
-Tko
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